Lynn is probably totally blind to what she's doing and unaware she's doing it. Women at my church are totally blind to the reality that it isn't fact that women aren't naturally wired to keep a neat home and be hospitable, it's how we're trained by our culture *coughgenderessentialismcough* When it's what you're surrounded with your entire life, you don't question its veracity and it becomes second nature. Anything contrary to it, you find an explanation for. I'm not saying that Lynn hasn't pulled the 'I refuse to allow facts to sway my opinion' defense, only that I wonder how conscious she is of doing it and how aware she is of not being as much of a rebel as she might like to think she is.